Intentional parenting can be tough. Here’s a list of 9 important Christian parenting tips for intentional Christian parenting.


Intentional Christian Parenting Tips
My kids and I used to love taking a trip to our local arboretum. Each spring we would hike up to see the magnolia and cherry blossoms.

I suppose we could have wandered around, hoping that we would eventually find the sections we seek in the 187-acre park.

Instead, we took a map.

We got to see the magnolias, the cherries, and a myriad of other cool things. We achieved our purpose, map in hand.


Setting the Course In Intentional Parenting

We have road maps, hiking maps–even my favorite bookstore has a map!

Why, then, do we sometimes fail to set a course in parenting?

Why do we worry about the minor issues, and forget about the big ones? How do we become so wrapped up in the insignificant issues and forget about the foundational ones?

Intentional Christian parenting can be tough, and the years are shorter than they seem. Here’s a list of some important things to remember. A map, if you will.


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Intentional Christian Parenting Tip #1: Love and Value Your Children

Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.

Ephesians 6:4, ESV

Nothing exasperates a child faster than feeling unloved.

Criticism, disdain and neglect leave scars not easily healed. More importantly, our children filter and interpret God’s love through the lens of their experience with their parents. If we can not convey our love and respect for our children while they are young, we lose the right to speak into their lives as they grow.

Does this mean we pamper our children? Does it mean that we fail to discipline them or praise their every move? No. We know from Scripture that we discipline our children because we love them, just as our Father disciplines us (Hebrews 12:4-11).

We engage in intentional parenting as we spend time with our children, hug them, speak blessings over them, serve them and give them good gifts. We look for opportunities to encourage and praise them when they do well, and we hold our tongues when the situation calls for grace and mercy.

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Intentional Christian Parenting Tip #2: Point Children to Scripture

All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, equipped for every good work.

2 Timothy 3:16-17, ESV

The best parenting advice I have received is to use Scripture when praising, when correcting, when teaching, when rebuking. We use Scripture in every instance of parenting.

Sometimes, this consists of retelling Bible stories related to the present situation. Often, individual verses or passages speak to the issue at hand.

Parenting through Scripture requires effort intentionality. First, we must know the written Word of God. Second, we must pray for guidance before speaking. Sometimes, this means we must table the discussion we are having to do research.

However, if we are not using God-breathed instructions to parent, what are we using?

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Intentional Christian Parenting Tip #3: Teach Children the Lord’s Character

Come, O children, listen to me;
    I will teach you the fear of the Lord.

Psalm 34:11, ESV

We must raise our children to fear the Lord. They must understand His character.

After all, if we do not understand our Creator, life becomes muddy and unclear–we suddenly do not understand our own pain, our purpose, our emotions or our world. It is only through knowledge of our Sovereign Lord that we see anything close to truth.

There is only one true God. He is holy, just, wrathful, loving, jealous and sovereign.

It is vital that we give our children a clear picture of the One we serve. We do that best by helping our kids know God through his Word.

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Intentional Christian Parenting Tip #4: Protect Children’s Innocence

Let no one despise you for your youth, but set the believers an example in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity.

1 Timothy 4:12, ESV

It’s easy, in this culture of idolatry, to believe that the status quo is perfectly acceptable.

We frequently hear parents state, “I was raised with that (whatever influence is in question), and I turned out fine.”

When it comes to the things we allow in our children’s minds, though, what if we don’t have the right to steal our children’s innocence? What if we are responsible for sheltering their purity until they are old enough to choose for themselves? What if the movies, music, and books we expose them to are shaping their spirits and impacting their souls?

How much is that worth?

I don’t have the perfect answer for these questions, and we’re all in this parenting thing together, figuring out how to raise adults in the culture we live in while working to shield their hearts until they grow in relationship with the Lord.

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Intentional Christian Parenting Tip #5: Character Training Comes First

The fruit of the righteous is a tree of life,
    and whoever captures souls is wise.

Proverbs 11:30, ESV

The character of our children will lay the foundation for every single act in their lives.

Building and developing character can be an exhausting endeavor–it requires saying the same thing over and over and over again. It requires parental diligence–lots and lots of diligence.

Even so, we have a responsibility to help develop character in our children; to train them to be compassionate, honest, respectful, humble, loving, kind, hard-working and trustworthy. We want our children to have integrity–to do the same thing in public that they do in private.

All that said, man is sinful by nature (Psalm 51:5). We are humans are prone to the worst traits imaginable.

It is only through the work of the Holy Spirit that our hearts are changed and the fruit of the Spirit is manifested. In our household, we train repeatedly, and pray constantly, asking the Lord to call our children to himself and to give them regenerate hearts.

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Intentional Christian Parenting Tip #6: Teach to Children’s Gifting

Now there are varieties of gifts, but the same Spirit; and there are varieties of service, but the same Lord; and there are varieties of activities, but it is the same God who empowers them all in everyone.

1 Corinthians 12:4-6, ESV

Put simply, God created each of our children to have unique talents, gifts, and abilities–he has a purpose for each child. It is our job, as parents, to prayerfully raise our children toward their individual bent. We must strive to help our children find their unique purpose.

For me, this means I don’t want to close any door for my children that the Lord has not himself closed. If my child appears to be a linguist, and I am teaching my child, this means I must learn the languages God guides us to teach our little one.

We teach to our child’s calling, regardless of the difficulty this may cause us personally. This whole idea of teaching to strengths sometimes takes experimentation.

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You want your kids to learn and love the Bible. 

You want to teach the Bible…

As parents, we deeply desire the best for our kids. We look for the right schools, we make them eat right and exercise, and we get them involved in extracurricular activities. We take our job as parents seriously.

But are we also putting our time and energy into
teaching them the Bible? Giving them the life-changing, soul-nourishing words of Scripture is not only doable, it’s an essential part of parenting kids for Jesus. And the good news is, studying God’s Word as a family doesn’t have to be difficult!

2 Timothy 2:15, ESV, says:

Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved,
a worker who has no need to be ashamed, rightly handling the word of truth.

Our job, as parents who love Jesus, is to help our kids become approved workers, unashamed and rightly handling the word of truth.

The good news? Teaching the Bible isn’t hard. Your family can learn the Bible together.

…and you can!

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You will finish this book feeling encouraged and empowered to initiate and strengthen your child’s relationship with the Lord through His Word.

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